IF YOU'RE being controlled by your partner, you don't have to suffer alone.

That's the message from Dorset Police, who are spearheading a new campaign to raise awareness of psychological abuse in relationships.

Anyone who inflicts such abuse on their partner can now be prosecuted under the relatively new charge of controlling or coercive behaviour, which was introduced in 2015.

Officials say that whatever type of abuse is taking place – be it physical, sexual, emotional or financial – the abuser is trying to control the victim.

Superintendent Gemma Morris of Dorset Police said abuse can happen to anyone, at any age and in any kind of relationship.

Survivor Danielle said: "I was brought up in a home riddled with violence, neglect and isolation.

"I have experienced different types of abuse in adulthood, as well as the feelings of loneliness, fear and hopelessness that comes with it.

“I didn’t understand that abuse wasn’t just about broken bones and bruises; I had no awareness around the different types of abuse.

"In each case I was in an environment where I had little control. I was left with low self-esteem and little confidence.

“Fortunately, with the appropriate support, I was able to regain control of my life, get the help I needed and escape from the abuse.

"I went on to work as an independent domestic violence advisor to other victims. It’s really important to me to let other sufferers of abuse know that help is available and that your life can change for the better.”

Supt Morris said: "Domestic abuse is about one person having power and control over another.

"Abusers can be very subtle, clever and manipulative.

"The level and type may change and increase over time, and often the victim doesn’t realise they are being abused.

"Perpetrators can use intimidation, coercion, threats, blackmail and other tools to control their victims. Abuse isn’t just physical.

“We hope this campaign will encourage people to seek help if they are in an abusive relationship, either from police or one of our partner agencies”.

For help and advice about domestic abuse, including information about both police and non-police support across Dorset, victims and their friends and family can contact:

  •  dorset.police.uk/help-advice-crime-prevention/abuse-exploitation-neglect/domestic-abuse/domestic-abuse-who-can-help/
  •  The National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247
  •  Dorset Victims’ Bureau on 01202 222799

Call 101 to speak to police. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999.