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Made prisoners by anti-social yobs


“YOUR home is meant to be a safe place – but it wasn’t. It becomes like a fortress of fear.

“You batten down the hatches. You start thinking – they could burn it down, we could be trapped. What happens if I put the bins out and they bottle me from behind and I’m lying there bleeding – who will find me?”

These are the words of Asher Nardone who suffered years of abuse at her home after moving to Poole’s Rossmore Estate in 2006.

Her car was vandalised, things were thrown at her house and both she and her son were victims of verbal and even physical abuse.

At Christmas 2008 a brick was thrown through their window – smashing a brand-new television and showering glass across the room.

For the mum-of-two, a full-time carer for her severely disabled son, the impact of antisocial behaviour has been devastating. At its worst, she told the Echo she could scarcely sleep or function.

She wouldn’t even go into her own garden after dark for fear of being attacked and kept a knife and a panic alarm by her bed.

Her son was too scared to sleep alone and jumped at every sound, paranoid that a brick would come through his window as he slept.

She said: “Everybody experiences it at some time – that ‘fight or flight’ reaction when your heart is pounding. Multiply that 100 times. I had that feeling all day long for weeks and weeks.”

For months Asher felt “passed around” between the police and other agencies, and became more and more frustrated with a lack of co-ordinated action.

“You get the response team coming out – but it’s always different people. No one is passionate about sorting it out. It’s just another incident, just another call-out.”

“You need somebody to take responsibility in these cases and see it through.”

But, after years of battling for help, Asher said things are now much improved.

Her story has even been filmed by Dorset Police to help officers learn lessons.

“The police force are really trying to be proactive now – they’re really trying to make a difference,” she added.

Linda Mundle, who owns Reel Time arcade in Poole High Street, has also fought for action on antisocial behaviour in her area of Old Town Poole, which she says was plagued with all-day drinkers and drug users whose behaviour left residents and traders “frightened and intimidated”.

“They were coming up to people asking them for money, urinating in public. One woman with her five-year-old saw people with needles in their arms – in the day.

“Old ladies were frightened to go and get fish and chips at 7pm at night. It got worse and worse. We went from a few to groups of 15.

“It was very, very frightening. People didn’t want to come down here any more.”

Linda took a stand. After she gathered a petition a packed public meeting was held, where others came forward.

A police crackdown in the area has now tackled the problem.

Linda added: “It takes one person to stand up to them and everybody in the community comes forward.

“I shouldn’t have had to put myself at risk. Everybody said I was going to be hurt and I was silly, but if I hadn’t done that it would have got worse and worse. You have to stand up to these people.”

Police working hard to protect those at risk DORSET Police receives around 44,000 reports of antisocial behaviour every year, ranging from complaints about youngsters playing football in the street to cases of people being harassed and intimidated. Assistant Chief Consta-ble Mike Glanville said: “We do take antisocial behaviour very seriously. It’s one of our first priorities. “One of the problems is that it covers a wide range of incidents. One of the challenges is to make sure we are properly categorising these incidents, then being in a position to identify repeat victims, locations and vulnerable people.” Mr Glanville stressed that the police worked closely with local authorities, health trusts and social services. “We could do better to provide a more consistent joined-up service, and that’s something we are now working very hard at. “Over the last five or six years, there has been some increase in reports. Everybody has got a mobile phone so it’s quite easy to contact the police and pass on information. Very often, the solution doesn’t lie with the police but with other agencies,” he said. “One person’s antisocial behaviour is someone else’s kids having a good time. Some people might be very intolerant of kids playing football outside their house. Part of our job is trying to identify those incidents that have the biggest impact on people and those individuals who are most at risk.”

Comments(8)

Casualferret says...
8:19am Fri 12 Mar 10

Dont use the police take things into your own hands and deal with them that way ...

rayc says...
8:28am Fri 12 Mar 10

The very term ASB is part of the problem. There are very serious instances of harassment, thuggery, intimidation and threats of violence hidden behind that term.
There are laws that currently exist that could cover these offences.
10 years ago the Government set very strict targets for reducing Killed and Serious Injury accidents on the roads of the UK. An enormous amount of resources has gone into attempting to achieve that target. Perhaps they need to declare a target for reducing harassment, thuggery, intimidation and threats of violence and put the same amount of money into it.

nigglygrilly says...
9:30am Fri 12 Mar 10

Can we not focus on the positives here instead of alwyas on the negatives? Yes bad things are happening but as Asher herself says in the article things HAVE improved and the Police action is working. Taking a stand has improved things in Poole -why should we let a minority spoil things for the majority? If we constantly give the "bad" minority the publicity they will have more and more momentum to continue.
There are far more good teenagers than bad, far more non drug addicted people than addicted and far more non alcohol dependent people than dependent - but then I suppose if we focus on the good for a change it does not make snesational headlines!
Can we not hear it for the heroes and the ordinary good people of this society for once and not sensationalise the bad?

Trish1 says...
10:39am Fri 12 Mar 10

casualferret must be living on another planet. How does a woman on her own with kids, take on a bunch of lowlife who would think nothing of GBH, and goodness knows what else. Of course she relies on the police to help her. That is what her taxes are paying for. I dare say her neighbours might help, but then, they could be the perpetrators. My advice...leave that estate if you can, and live somewhere else.

BournemouthMum says...
1:44pm Fri 12 Mar 10

Any family or individual caught causing problems for neighbours more than three times should be evicted. Problem solved. Asbos serve no purpose whatsoever.

Floater010 says...
9:35pm Fri 12 Mar 10

The police like an easy life. Deal with this scum in your own way (wearing a mask to conceal identity!)

Skatha says...
10:00pm Fri 12 Mar 10

Those who advise her to take the law into her own hands clearly do not know the full story here.

In the beginning she did try to speak to the pond scum, she asked them to stop, she begged them to stop, she shouted at them to stop and the more she asked, the more they kept on and it got worse and worse.

How the hell do you people REALLY expect a lone woman to take on groups of yobs single handedly ?!

Get real the lot of you. She dealt with in the CORRECT way by going to the Police.

They advised her to ignore it and suggested it would eventually stop!

It is the Police who have dragged their heels and allowed it to go on for so long!

poolebabe says...
12:05pm Sat 13 Mar 10

Part of the problem is curtain twitchers and tutters. The police say they deal with calls about children playing football. No doubt children making a noise as well. It all gets lumped as ASB and the police get swamped. There needs to be clearer guidelines, and the police need to be able to act quickly to weadle out what really is ASB and what is children playing, or low level nuisence. Let the council sort out low level nuisence, and let the police deal with the crime.


ANGUISH: Asher Nardone with sons Gaurin and Calum ANGUISH: Asher Nardone with sons Gaurin and Calum

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