“He was a real gentleman” – family’s tribute to Stefan Noyce, who died in collision with car

“He was a real gentleman” – family’s tribute to Stefan Noyce, who died in collision with car

SO SAD: Paula Haden, centre, with Stefan's sisters Abbie, left, and Demi Heckford.

TRAGIC: Stefan Noyce

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A PROUD mother and devoted sisters have paid tribute to a much loved son and brother who died in collision with a car.

Stefan Noyce, 29, died on the South Causeway, between Wareham and Stoborough in the early hours of June 16.

“To me he was perfect,” said his grieving mum Paula Haden, who lives at Bovington. “I am so proud of Stefan. I want the world to know what a lovely boy he was.”

Surrounded by sympathy cards and buoyed by Facebook messages from his friends, the family has been stunned by the response to his death.

“Nearly 450 people have joined the Facebook page RIP Stefan Noyce and over 200 people want to come to his funeral,” said Paula. “Everybody is absolutely wonderful.”

She and Stefan’s sisters Abbie Heckford, 23, and Demi Heck-ford, 20, have been amazed by the touching stories.

Examples include tales of how he spent hours gardening for neighbours and refused pay-ment, borrowed a woman’s jack-et and returned it with a rose.

“He was just such a real gentleman,” said his mum. “I was amazed at how many hearts he touched.”

His sisters spoke of his liking for practical jokes, of how much fun he was and of his love for his family including brother Liam, 22, nephews Jack, four, and Harry, two, his step-sister and brother Kaylee and Kyle and his son Blake, 10.

Stefan had been out in Wareham and was walking to Stoborough where he was staying with his nan, who has dementia, when the collision took place.

He was hailed a hero as a teen-ager when he helped save the life of an elderly woman drowning in the River Frome.

Stefan loved the ocean and fishing and first went to sea at the age of 16. He had fished in Norway where he took part in a TV series, Ocean Heroes. Latterly he had worked for Dorset Waste Partnership.

No date has yet been set for the “no tears” funeral he had requested. However, his family aim to carry out his wishes and celebrate his life.

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1:27pm Fri 4 Jul 14

swiggles says...

RIP Stef, one of the first people I met when I moved to Stoborough. Always smiling and really nice guy. Whenever I hear groove armarda 'I see you baby shaking that ****' I think of stef as he sung it at me many times. Funny beautiful man, you will be missed xxx
RIP Stef, one of the first people I met when I moved to Stoborough. Always smiling and really nice guy. Whenever I hear groove armarda 'I see you baby shaking that ****' I think of stef as he sung it at me many times. Funny beautiful man, you will be missed xxx swiggles
  • Score: 8

1:29pm Fri 4 Jul 14

swiggles says...

Ps my thoughts and love go out to his family xxx
Ps my thoughts and love go out to his family xxx swiggles
  • Score: 10

3:13pm Fri 4 Jul 14

User2345 says...

Just to clarify Kayleigh and Kyle are not Stefan's step brother and sister, they are his actual brother and sister and both miss him immensely.
Just to clarify Kayleigh and Kyle are not Stefan's step brother and sister, they are his actual brother and sister and both miss him immensely. User2345
  • Score: 10

3:13pm Fri 4 Jul 14

Ophilum says...

Sounds like one of the good guys, only the good die young the saying goes but a great loss for the family none the less, RIP.
Sounds like one of the good guys, only the good die young the saying goes but a great loss for the family none the less, RIP. Ophilum
  • Score: 7

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