Why I'm backing organ donor campaign - mum who's waited six months for kidney transplant

PLEA: Sarah Parsons with her children Polly, 9,  Billy, 15, and Charlie, 18 PLEA: Sarah Parsons with her children Polly, 9, Billy, 15, and Charlie, 18

A BOURNEMOUTH mum desperately waiting for a kidney transplant is supporting a national campaign to increase the number of organ donors.

Mum-of-three Sarah Parsons, 43, has Polycystic Kidney Disease (PKD) and her kidneys are currently operating at just 11 per cent capacity.

She has been on the organ transplant list since last August and has seen numerous people come forward and offer to donate a kidney but has not yet found a suitable match.

ITV has now launched its From the Heart campaign urging people to consider becoming an organ donor.

Sarah, of Southbourne, said: “I back any efforts to encourage people to sign up to the donor programme and I think the ITV programme highlighting the problem was absolutely brilliant.

“It’s only my opinion but I think that if you would be willing to accept a donated organ if you needed one then you should also be prepared to give one.

“I have seen around 16 donors come forward willing to offer me a kidney but none was a match.

“In the beginning I used to get so excited, we would have all the tests done and wait five weeks only to be told they were no good.

“I get quite low but I try and pick myself up again.

It’s quite an emotional ride. You hear all these wonderful stories about people getting organs from their neighbours but in most cases, it’s nowhere near as straightforward as that. Believe me, I’m going through it and it’s just not that simple.”

Sarah lost her mother to PKD and her eldest son Charlie has also recently been diagnosed with the hereditary disease. Her sister is also a sufferer.

She said finding a donor would make a world of difference to her and her family: “I just want my life back,” she said. “I get very tired and often have to sleep in the afternoons.

“And I can’t make plans because I never know how I will be feeling. It does affect my life at the moment.

“I just hope this new campaign is successful and more people join the register.”

Comments(6)

billd766 says...
1:17am Wed 20 Feb 13

A simple way to increase organ donation is to pass a law that states if you DON'T want to be a donor carry a card stating that.
That way everybody would be able to be a donor except those who positively refuse.
So many organs are wasted and lost because not that many people make apositive decision to be a donor.

BournemouthMum says...
7:46am Wed 20 Feb 13

Agree with the comment above. The only way to increase the number of donors is to have an opt-out scheme as opposed to the current opt-in. It must be horrendous waiting for an organ knowing that so many are being wasted.

Bella53 says...
10:37am Wed 20 Feb 13

It would have been a good idea for this article to have contained a link to the relevant website for organ donation

paul.p says...
1:35pm Wed 20 Feb 13

billd766 wrote:
A simple way to increase organ donation is to pass a law that states if you DON'T want to be a donor carry a card stating that.
That way everybody would be able to be a donor except those who positively refuse.
So many organs are wasted and lost because not that many people make apositive decision to be a donor.
People who don't give their organs for others when they die are obviously all for themselves or their religion.

CDDorset says...
9:14pm Wed 20 Feb 13

My best friend has been on dialysis for over 12 years now and is still waiting. It seems that many can now go straight to the top of the list so that they don't endure the years of dialysis as this is a cheaper option for the NHS. Be great if they not only have the opt-out option but a fair and just system so that she too can have a life at all, let alone back. Wishing all the best to all that are in this situation, my heart goes out to them and their families.

ScoobyVic says...
11:20pm Fri 22 Feb 13

I was so pleased that ITV have been highlighting the need for organ donors as I myself need a heart transplant but can't have one yet due to lack of donors. It's horrible to see so many organs go to waste and i think an opt out policy would be great. As said above if you would accept an organ then you should be a donor.
People are quite ok with being buried in the ground or burnt but don't like the thought of having their organs used? I've heard this a few times and it makes no sense to me.
I truly hope Sarah gets her gift soon :)

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