Mayor of Bournemouth urges people to befriend an elderly neighbour

THE mayor of Bournemouth has urged people to make a New Year’s resolution to befriend an elderly neighbour.

The town’s first citizen was struck by how many elderly and lonely people attended Salvation Army events on Christmas Day.

Now Cllr Phil Stanley-Watts is asking people to consider reaching out to older people who may be living with loneliness.

The mayor visited the Salvation Army Boscombe Corps’ Christmas Day lunch in Palmerston Road and the Winton Corps’ Christmas Day party at The Place Next Door Community Centre in Latimer Road.

Cllr Stanley-Watts told the Daily Echo: “Last year there were a lot more very elderly people living on their own and a lot of lonely elderly people.

“I think for a New Year’s Resolution, people should befriend an elderly neighbour if they’ve got someone living next door to them on their own.

“I met a 94-year-old lady living on her own with no family whatsoever.

“A large number of volunteers help the Salvation Army run and I would like to thank those volunteers. The Salvation Army do a lot of good work this time of the year.”

He said people came from many different areas of Bournemouth to the Christmas day celebration party in Winton.

“There’s such a need for this place in the community in Bournemouth but also there are a lot of residents out there that, if they’re living next door to elderly people, could befriend them,” he added.

Recent research found many pensioners have no relatives living near them and some have absolutely no family at all.

Half of over-75s see family members less than once a month and only a quarter have weekly visits.

Research by the Centre for the Modern Family discovered 43 per cent of people over-60 lived alone and 48 per cent had no family living locally, while 25 per cent said they had no relatives at all.

Comments(20)

O'Reilly says...
5:58pm Wed 2 Jan 13

I've always had the deepest respect for the Salvation Army and also The Lions who collect for the elderly at this time of year. A few quid in their collecting tins go a long way to helping a less fortunate soul than ourselves. Well done Mr Mayor for your kind thoughts.

retry69 says...
6:11pm Wed 2 Jan 13

He is having a lot of coverage is our mayor lately i just hope its not hot air and the elderly and vunerable get priority from the council all year round

step up says...
6:23pm Wed 2 Jan 13

retry69 wrote:
He is having a lot of coverage is our mayor lately i just hope its not hot air and the elderly and vunerable get priority from the council all year round
Bournemouth Borough Council give a **** about the vulnerable???!!! Dont make me laugh!! See tommorrow's Echo...

retry69 says...
6:37pm Wed 2 Jan 13

Never understood why people have to resort to foul language to express their veiw where minors have access,totally irresponsible and not a shining example to set

mansak_hunt says...
6:48pm Wed 2 Jan 13

Please please respect your elders and helpout if you can

Carolyn43 says...
6:54pm Wed 2 Jan 13

Don't need the mayor of Bournemouth or anyone else to tell me to befriend a neighbour. I have single elderly neighbours each side of me. Just being a decent human being means I check that they're both OK, give them lifts for shopping, medical appointments, etc. and frequently have a chat and a cuppa with both of them. Hopefully someone will do the same for me one day if I need it, but I'm not banking on it.

retry69 says...
6:57pm Wed 2 Jan 13

retry69 wrote:
Never understood why people have to resort to foul language to express their veiw where minors have access,totally irresponsible and not a shining example to set
And also before making comments should be able to spell "view" correctly

step up says...
7:32pm Wed 2 Jan 13

step up wrote:
retry69 wrote:
He is having a lot of coverage is our mayor lately i just hope its not hot air and the elderly and vunerable get priority from the council all year round
Bournemouth Borough Council give a **** about the vulnerable???!!! Dont make me laugh!! See tommorrow's Echo...
Dont know why Echo decided to block out the word D..n !! Looks much worse by replacing with stars and can see why you thought it 'foul' but you'd be mistaken unless you consider the word da.n foul !! Obviously cant print in entirety because will be blotted out! Da.n Dam.

retry69 says...
7:37pm Wed 2 Jan 13

step up wrote:
step up wrote:
retry69 wrote:
He is having a lot of coverage is our mayor lately i just hope its not hot air and the elderly and vunerable get priority from the council all year round
Bournemouth Borough Council give a **** about the vulnerable???!!! Dont make me laugh!! See tommorrow's Echo...
Dont know why Echo decided to block out the word D..n !! Looks much worse by replacing with stars and can see why you thought it 'foul' but you'd be mistaken unless you consider the word da.n foul !! Obviously cant print in entirety because will be blotted out! Da.n Dam.
What a great recovery congratulations LOL

step up says...
8:16pm Wed 2 Jan 13

retry69 wrote:
step up wrote:
step up wrote:
retry69 wrote:
He is having a lot of coverage is our mayor lately i just hope its not hot air and the elderly and vunerable get priority from the council all year round
Bournemouth Borough Council give a **** about the vulnerable???!!! Dont make me laugh!! See tommorrow's Echo...
Dont know why Echo decided to block out the word D..n !! Looks much worse by replacing with stars and can see why you thought it 'foul' but you'd be mistaken unless you consider the word da.n foul !! Obviously cant print in entirety because will be blotted out! Da.n Dam.
What a great recovery congratulations LOL
Happens to be true! Try sending da.n and see what happens!!

O'Reilly says...
8:43pm Wed 2 Jan 13

How to **** up a thread about old needy people by a few smart a*** Sh******s...well done guys, take a bow.

retry69 says...
9:02pm Wed 2 Jan 13

O'Reilly wrote:
How to **** up a thread about old needy people by a few smart a*** Sh******s...well done guys, take a bow.
Certainly show your respect there, i did wonder about the first post.

step up says...
9:02pm Wed 2 Jan 13

O'Reilly wrote:
How to **** up a thread about old needy people by a few smart a*** Sh******s...well done guys, take a bow.
Sorry was accused of foul language felt the need legitimatelty I think to point I didnt. You on the other hand are a foul mouthed quote a..ehol. clearly. Well done to you.

retry69 says...
9:09pm Wed 2 Jan 13

At least caroline43 seems sincere in her comment,There is hope!

s-pb2 says...
11:17pm Wed 2 Jan 13

retry69 wrote:
He is having a lot of coverage is our mayor lately i just hope its not hot air and the elderly and vunerable get priority from the council all year round
Your right the elderly and vulnerable do get help from a lot of dedicated frontline council workers, whether they be social workers or carers or so on. Its a shame they dont get properly recognised for their work.

Stanley-Watts though is a clown, and probably doesnt even have a clue that social care is a department in the council. He loves getting his name in the papers with his hair brained schemes. Remember this is the councillor at the last election whilst canvassing for re-election in Boscombe said he had no idea that people lived in such poor conditions in multi occupancy houses.

If the mayor was so shocked by what he saw and the people he met, then perhaps he should speak to the leader of the council about why we are wasting millions on frivolous vanity projects and not using that money on helping the vulnerable.

step up says...
11:49pm Wed 2 Jan 13

s-pb2 wrote:
retry69 wrote:
He is having a lot of coverage is our mayor lately i just hope its not hot air and the elderly and vunerable get priority from the council all year round
Your right the elderly and vulnerable do get help from a lot of dedicated frontline council workers, whether they be social workers or carers or so on. Its a shame they dont get properly recognised for their work.

Stanley-Watts though is a clown, and probably doesnt even have a clue that social care is a department in the council. He loves getting his name in the papers with his hair brained schemes. Remember this is the councillor at the last election whilst canvassing for re-election in Boscombe said he had no idea that people lived in such poor conditions in multi occupancy houses.

If the mayor was so shocked by what he saw and the people he met, then perhaps he should speak to the leader of the council about why we are wasting millions on frivolous vanity projects and not using that money on helping the vulnerable.
Well said. Agree totally.

manjon says...
12:59am Thu 3 Jan 13

Carolyn43 wrote:
Don't need the mayor of Bournemouth or anyone else to tell me to befriend a neighbour. I have single elderly neighbours each side of me. Just being a decent human being means I check that they're both OK, give them lifts for shopping, medical appointments, etc. and frequently have a chat and a cuppa with both of them. Hopefully someone will do the same for me one day if I need it, but I'm not banking on it.
You sound like an extremely nice person, it must be a pleasure being your neighbour, hopefully when the time comes you have neighbours as nice as yourself.

HRH of Boscombe says...
9:35am Thu 3 Jan 13

retry69 wrote:
Never understood why people have to resort to foul language to express their veiw where minors have access,totally irresponsible and not a shining example to set
Behave. What kids are bored enough to end up here on the world wide web? Mother hen, moral high ground tripe. Just think about the children lol

retry69 says...
10:55am Thu 3 Jan 13

HRH of Boscombe wrote:
retry69 wrote:
Never understood why people have to resort to foul language to express their veiw where minors have access,totally irresponsible and not a shining example to set
Behave. What kids are bored enough to end up here on the world wide web? Mother hen, moral high ground tripe. Just think about the children lol
well i assumed from some of the content of the comments posted daily they were from children.My mistake oops!

HRH of Boscombe says...
3:49pm Thu 3 Jan 13

retry69 wrote:
HRH of Boscombe wrote:
retry69 wrote: Never understood why people have to resort to foul language to express their veiw where minors have access,totally irresponsible and not a shining example to set
Behave. What kids are bored enough to end up here on the world wide web? Mother hen, moral high ground tripe. Just think about the children lol
well i assumed from some of the content of the comments posted daily they were from children.My mistake oops!
step up does support your point I suppose.

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